Redefining Your Life By Deborah Brassell

Redefining Your Life

Gathering pieces of shattered glass is a doting task, but it is necessary in order to prevent further harm to one’s self or those that may cross its path.

Such is life after a crisis; whether from an illness, the death of a loved one or adivorce. We are left torn into pieces without direction.

But in spite of your circumstances, let me be very clear “You can recover from anything”

Victim to Victor

The victim mentality becomes a strategy to deal with the tragedies of life. This mindset only intensifies your pain and cripples your efforts to possessing the power to change your own story. Give yourself time to process, but don’t get stuck in the why.

Helping Others

Use your situation to help others who have experience similar trouble. In doing so, you are instilling purpose and adding value to your life. Helping others bring great fulfillment for both parties involved and creates great emotional bonds.

Be kind to yourself

Choose to walk in the path of forgiveness and treat yourself to life’s most desirable treasures. Be observant and count each blessing day by day. Remember you are still fragile so don’t be afraid to set limits and boundaries.

As each piece of your life is meticulously being put back together it is vital that you frame it with good and healthy relationships. Your circle will determine your success.

Crisis does not have to be a death sentence. Rather, it is an opportunity to Redefine yourself and begin a new chapter.

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Meet the author

Deborah Brassell is a Motivational Speaker and Certified Life Coach. She has devoted 23 years of her life in working in various aspects of ministry and community outreach. She is the founder of Redefined & Co which is a natural skin/aromatherapy business that targets the professional busy mom and challenges women to redefine their life. 

She has a tremendous passion for the youth and currently volunteers as a mentor for “Hope for Johnstown” which works with young teen girls in underserved communities. She is the founder of “Girls Only” which provides mentorship and training for adolescents and young teens. Deborah has worked beside her husband in Marriage and Family workshops as well as their bible study entitled “The New You”.

Through her prophetic teaching and gift of deliverance she shares the many trials she has faced in marriage, parenting and ministry. She has patterned her life off the belief that you can recover from anything. Her many sermons has blessed many people both young and old and she is known for such messages as “Dream Again” and “Making it on Broken Pieces”. Her ministry focus is helping people identify toxic relationships, controlling environments and spiritual abuse.